Make a drink, find a quiet spot and work out what you actually value.  Is everything aligned?

Who you are, what do you hold dear, what upsets you, and what underlies your decisions, are all connected to your personal values.  Your values reflect what is important to you. They are a shorthand way of describing your motivations. Together with your beliefs, they are the causal factors that drive your decision-making.  

Free values questionnaire - https://www.valuescentre.com/tools-ssessments/pva/

Results emailed immediately - takes about 5 minutes 

Barrett Values Centre